Thoughts on Black-Tie Attire
A couple of weeks from now I will be heading back out to Los Angeles to attend the wedding of one of my best friends from college.
I was honored when he asked me to be one of his groomsmen as its been quite sometime since I’ve worn a tuxedo (the last time I put one on was back in 2004 to celebrate my grandparents’ golden anniversary). Furthermore, this gave me a reason to buy a new tuxedo.
I was lucky enough to find a vintage Brooks Brothers tuxedo at the Goodwill on Route 18 in East Brunswick, NJ. The price? A whopping $30 (it was originally marked at $60 but I just happened to come in on 50% Off Day)! This tuxedo was in pristine condition and it almost fit me perfectly (the previous owner was taller than me by a few inches as evidenced by the 34 length inseam).
It’s nice to have options but when it comes to black-tie weddings and other formal affairs, it is best to keep it classic. No offense to those designers who are making navy tuxedos but a tuxedo should not be directional, progressive or forward. Generally speaking a tux should be black with a satin, peaked lapel. It should have no more than two-buttons. Also no wing-collars; straight collars look best. Pocket squares are optional as are braces. Stay away from the cumber-bunds and patterned vests (please resist the urge to wear your college alma-mater’s colors). You can let your personality show in the footwear department. If you are a dandy, go for a velvet slipper or shoe. Are you more of a traditionalist? A nice oxford shoe is probably the best choice. If you’re not such a fan of patent leather just make sure your shoes have a nice high shine.
In regards to neckwear, your best bet is a bow-tie. It looks better than a long tie and is much more classic.
Lastly, if you are above the age of 22, it is time to stop renting tuxedos. You can thank me later.
